Computers have quite a lot of problems of their own, but don't respond very well to being invited to talk about their issues. I found that their users, however, got on much better with this talking approach. That ultimately led me into taking up counselling as a new career in 2005.
Owing to my background, some of the issues I am well-placed to deal with include:
Online relationships - interacting and making friendships with people you have never met, be it on social media, an online game or whatever you choose - I don’t consider this anti-social or peculiar and I know how tough and emotional it can become.
The difficulties of being a manager or team-leader - whether it’s dealing with personnel issues, difficult staff, difficult managers or organisational problems, managing remote teams, hiring, disciplinaries, redundancies, etc., and this includes the personal transitional issues people have when they first take on a managing role.
- Changing careers - the things to consider and the problems you face when you want to make that jump.
I also lecture in counselling from time to time, for various places and in various guises.
In my spare time I enjoy craft projects, singing, reading novels, board games and computer gaming, watching films, comedy and sci-fi, and still spending time grappling with various computers; you never really escape from IT.
I also have a strong sense of humour and believe that just because something is very serious it doesn’t necessarily have to be cold and soulless as well.